Monday, March 9, 2009

TMI Tuesday #177

1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not?
I'm pro-love baby! Seriously though, I don't feel marriage is a requirement in a fulfilling relationship, only that it is one way to acknowledge it. Someday I might get married. I certainly hope so anyways- but that's because I want that certificate in my hand, signaling our exclusivity. I suppose I see it as a contract of sorts, one I won't enter lightly, but one that once agreed to will last me though a lifetime.

2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?
Hells no! I know I'm creative but credit me with a bit of intelligence here. There isn't much left in the bedroom that hasn't been done before, IF there's anything left at all.

3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?
I have to go with sometimes on this one. I mean, I love BDSM, don't get me wrong, but there's something to be said for those gentle nights. When the music's on low, waves of love and lust floating through the air. The candles glow shines softly on your lovers skin. You move slowly, fingers trail and caress without a single nail biting in. He tells you with his hands those things he doesn't know the words to say.

Men, at least the men I've been with, are not creatures of poetry. Making love is entirely different than primal sex. I love both and each has its moment.

4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?
Perhaps- I'd say it's a slippery slope, a hill where you need to watch each step carefully.

5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?
For the most part, no. I like having my partner there. I like the feel of "real meat." I'm no vegetarian. ^_~

6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?
This one is hard to say. My partner doesn't live with me so really, I have no way of knowing. I think if he were here more often I would use sex to my advantage- meaning I would take out the stresses of the day and do the same for him. I'm sure it would be mutually beneficial.

7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?
He doesn't, at least never in front of me. I can't even recall a moment when he LOOKED at another woman for that matter. I did bring this up to him once- the looking part. He said "it would be dumb." He knew it was just one of the jerk moves and he didn't learn it from me. I don't flirt with anyone in front of him either for that matter.

8. Do you think you're flirty by nature?
By nature? Perhaps. By necessity? Definitely. I know my own needs. Attention and appreciation are some of them. I'd prefer to get them at home but if not well, I am who I am. If Mr X doesn't want to show it then I won't feel guilty for seeking out some harmless (and I do mean harmless) affection. I will never open a door when it should stay closed.


  1. LOL! Love your answer to #5! I am with ya on that one. Happy TMI!

  2. Welcome to TMI...I hope you come back, I will be back to visit.